Category Archives: sex

Scarlet letters

Posted on October 4, 2011 by

M, Remember the man that I told you about – the wildly inappropriate one, a bad choice? We’ve been talking, texting (sexting), seeing each other for a month or so. I slept with him Saturday night. Then, of course, fell … Continue reading →

Posted in best friend M, brutally honest, my flaws, Rejection, sex | 5 Comments

Katy Perry’s got nothing on my Friday nights

Posted on September 8, 2011 by

“Wanna go to a party Friday night?” Sigh. “I don’t know, it has been a nearly 60 hour week. Friday I work late, too.” “Meet me at 9:00. It’s all you can drink.” “Had me at all you can.” On … Continue reading →

Posted in friends, I lost my pants, just friends, my flaws, ridiculous stories, scandalous, sex | 9 Comments

No Duck Dumplings at Ping Pong Dim Sum

Posted on September 7, 2011 by

Finally, The Epilogue. Catch the whole story with Chapters 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 and 6. Thanks for reading! It seems that in D.C., the better the sex I have, the less likely I am to see the man again. … Continue reading →

Posted in Bach, date picks, dinner dates, ending it template, h street, Not A Lucky Girl, Ping Pong Dim Sum, Queen Vic, Roommate E, sex, Shoes, The Real Mr. T | 3 Comments

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta go down on me…

Posted on August 31, 2011 by

Didn’t your mom ever tell you no dessert before dinner? Go back and eat your vegetables! My hands, they were tingling. Not like the tiny needles that shoot through them when they wake up from a good sleep, but tingling … Continue reading →

Posted in favorite bars, h street, Kissing, laws of attraction, oral sex, Red Palace, scandalous, sex, The Real Mr. T | 6 Comments

Sex over easy

Posted on August 30, 2011 by

Power and gender dynamics and societal norms and the intersection of feminism and sexuality and game and sluts and hos and players and pimps and assholes and rules and insecurities and body issues and confidence and masculinity and orgasms and … Continue reading →

Posted in sex | 2 Comments

to have sex or to date, that is the question

Posted on August 5, 2011 by

First there was a royal mix-up, then I had an blind impromptu date, then I invited my impromptu date to sleep over, but we didn’t have sex and then… oh wait, that’s where we are now! I fell back asleep, … Continue reading →

Posted in Bach, beer, Roommate E, sex, The Real Mr. T | 9 Comments

Don’t (Always) Take ‘No’ for a Rejection

Posted on June 28, 2011 by

I was sort of into this guy a while back. He’s smart and successful, genuinely funny and good-natured, kind and friendly – he’s great. I wasn’t positive I was attracted to him, but I wasn’t positive I couldn’t be. He’s … Continue reading →

Posted in brutally honest, Kissing, laws of attraction, period., Rejection, Roommate E, sex | 4 Comments

“I Prefer ‘Sex-Positive Hussy,’ Sir”

Posted on June 6, 2011 by

“If I didn’t define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people’s fantasies for me and eaten alive.” -Audre Lorde This weekend was yet another bizarre one in the life of dating blogger “C.” It came to light … Continue reading →

Posted in friends, h street, lessons, Little Miss Whiskey's, out with Courtney, Rejection, Roommate E, sex | 15 Comments

Lip Service: Eye Gazing Party Sees Success

Posted on May 26, 2011 by

I want to have tantric sex. Candles, perhaps. Breathing in sync. Painfully, tantalizingly slow. Sensual. Intense. Tantric sex. That’s it. That’s what I want. And I really, really want tantric sex right. now. I can feel my own breathing intensifying … Continue reading →

Posted in laws of attraction, Lip Service, older men, ridiculous stories, sex | 7 Comments

I Have Casual Sex Like a Woman

Posted on May 9, 2011 by

She doesn’t think I can have sex with him sans emotions, sans attachment. I can see it in her face, even as she nods and says it sounds great. Finally, she admits it. “I think I’ve you’re going to fall … Continue reading →

Posted in I lost my pants, laws of attraction, lessons, sex | 5 Comments